old and new

As everyone knows everything advents sometime and leaves another time. When new one is coming, a war will happen between new and old!
At first war always old will win. At second war they will compromise with each other. Finally it is at third war that new will win the war. %this statement is a quotation of another person%
But where & how do these new issues come from?
Do we interfere in creation of them? Or we only observe them and choose some of them?
Anyway because all of us have a kind of stationary property, we don’t like this battle and therefore avoid from encountering new.
elite persons are those who can leave some of these avoids.